Stedman Graham
       
       
       
   
 
               
Stedman was a basketball star at Hardin-Simmons University in Abilene, Texas. He graduated in 1974, then went on to play the European Basketball League. In 1979 Stedman earned a graduate degree in education from Ball State University in Muncie, Indiana. He is divorced and has a grown daughter, Wendy. Wendy grew up living with her mother, Glenda, in Dallas but spent time with her father and Oprah.
Stedman worked in prison education before switching careers in the late 1980s. He now owns a Chicago-based, sports-oriented marketing and public relations firm and is founder of a non-profit organization called Athletes Against Drugs. Additionally, Stedman has written a column for Inside Sports magazine and is author of two inspirational books based on his life in sports.
   
   
   
   
   
   
                       
“Sport is what I love,” says Stedman. Stedman’s first book, You can make it happen: A Nine Step Plan for Success, was published by Simon & Schuster in 1997. A smaller book, You Can Make It Happen Every Day, was published in 1998.  Stedman grew up in the working-class community of Whitesboro, New Jersey. He often heard the discouraging remark, “nothing good comes out of Whitesboro.” He says he was too light-complexioned to be accepted by many blacks but not light enough to be accepted by most white people. Additionally, he was taunted by classmates because his two younger brothers were mentally disabled.
“I feel comfortable with who I am, although I haven’t always,” says Stedman. “I give Oprah credit for helping me understand that the source of my pain was in the past.” Regarding Oprah’s influence and wealth, he says: “When you’re with a powerful woman who makes more money than you – of course, she makes more money than anybody – it’s tough on a man. But if you can build something for yourself that’s special, it doesn’t matter who your mate is.”
 
   
 
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Oprah says that Stedman is “my rock.” He also has a cute-but-corny sense of humor. For one thing, he keeps telling the same old jokes. “Every time we have artichokes for dinner, he goes, ‘you might choke Artie, but you won’t choke Stedman.’ Every single time!”