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LARRY
KING: She's finally here! Tonight, Oprah for the hour, next on Larry King Live!
It's been since January, 1995 that Oprah has been on this show,
and that is 6 1/2 years, and she has become so huge you don't have
to say the last name. It is always great seeing her. We go back a
long way. We were kidding before we went on the air, the first
time I was on with Oprah, I was on her show in Baltimore, and I
think my daughter was 15 and when it was the surprise guest, and
now she's 34, Oprah, so -- how do you feel?
OPRAH: How
do you feel? The guy I used to co-host with, Richard Sheer, that
show "People Are Talking," e- mailed me today...
KING: Really?
OPRAH:
... to ask if I remembered -- because apparently, he knew I was
going to be on your show tonight. And he e-mailed me to ask if I
remembered when we had Kia on. I said, how could I forget that?
What's impressive to me is that you still remember it, all these
many years later.
KING:
That was a fun show, and I remember when you left to go to Chicago
and you were going to try the big time, Oprah, and whatever
happened to you?
(LAUGHTER)
KING: What
is -- do you -- do you ever pinch yourself? Do you ever say that
-- I mean, do you ever take a step back and look at you?
OPRAH: Yeah, I do that almost every day, because I spend a lot of time --
I spend time with myself. I think a lot has happened to me since
we did that show and Kia was 15 years old. A lot of things have
happened to me, but I try to keep my life in perspective, and I
have journaled, Larry -- I have the journals since I was 15 years
old, actually.
KING: Really?
OPRAH: Yes, I do, and actually of all my -- I would say my most valuable
possessions, my journals would probably be my most valuable
possessions, so I had journals since I was 15 years old. I still
have a journal from when my dad wouldn't let me go to Shoney's
with Anthony Yohi (ph), and you know, he wouldn't let me date
whoever I wanted to date.
So I still have a record, really, of my life in Baltimore, all of
my frustrations, all of my, you know, years of trying to figure
out stuff for myself, and so I have been able to look at my rife
in a way that I guess a lot of people haven't, because I have
cataloged it, you know, my feelings about various things.
KING: And speaking of -- speaking of that, you were going to do a
book once. I attended a big party for that book.
OPRAH: Yeah.
KING:
Had a lot of food and much merriment, we spoke a lot. You canceled
the book, and now that I hear about the journals -- were the
journals going to be part of that, and why haven't you done one?
OPRAH: Actually, I canceled that book because I thought I was in the
heart of a learning curve. I just decided that it wasn't time and
that my reason for doing it wasn't good enough. I had been
convinced that I should do the book because I was turning 40.
Well, turning 40 doesn't mean that all of a sudden you know more
than you did when you were 39 or 38.
And I just decided that it wasn't the time, and that, you know, I
had been working for about a year on that book, and I thought that
there were a lot of good things about it, but it wasn't where I
wanted it to be, and so I really am really proud that I was able
to make that decision. At the time, that was the hardest decision
I had ever made.
KING: Really?
OPRAH: And
it's funny -- yeah, because I had such a disease to please and not
wanting to disappoint anybody. It's funny that you mentioned the
party, because that's the thing that I was so upset about. I kept
saying, but they had the party, they had the party!
KING: That was a huge party.
OPRAH:
And when I called up the publisher to say I wasn't going to do it,
Larry, I said, "I will pay you for the shrimp. Do you want me
to pay you back for the party?" Honest to goodness.
KING: Will
there be a book?
OPRAH: When
Nelson Mandela was on last year, and then I saw him afterward, he
has been saying to me that I really should do one, that it is
something I should take very seriously. So perhaps it's sometime,
it's not something that I have thought about a lot, but the fact
that Nelson Mandela said it to me, I thought, well, maybe it is
something. And I will always have the journals, I will always have
the journals.
KING: I know, they're right there. We got a lot of things to cover
tonight. It has been 16 years, you won all these Emmys and
Peabodys and everything. Were you confident in yourself that you
were going to make it?
OPRAH: Well,
Larry, when I -- I have always been confident about this, I have
been confident that my life is bigger than I know, I'm confident
that everybody's life is bigger than they know. I'm confident that
there is a bigger force at work with all of us, and that if you
are willing to submit yourself, to allow yourself to align with
whatever that is, whatever that dream or vision is for yourself,
then you can do great things in your life.
So I have always been confident that there was more at work in my
life than just my own little personality. I have always been an
orator, I grew up speaking in the church, speaking in the school,
dramatic interpretation I won two years in high school. And I
remember leaving Nashville, I was one of the, you know, I was
always like one of those people hired to be a keynote speaker from
the time I was 15 years old at churches and banquets and women's
groups.
And I left Nashville, going to Baltimore, and I was speaking at a
Baptist church in Nashville, and my speech was, "I don't know
what the future holds, but I know who holds the future." So I
have always not -- I certainly could not have imagined -- I mean...
KING: This.
OPRAH: I
couldn't have imagined this. Are you kidding? When I came to
Chicago, I was just hoping to maintain some kind of number up
against Phil Donohue, because when I came to Chicago Phil was on,
and Phil was king. And Dennis Swanson who was the general manager
here said to me, "We know you can't beat Phil Donohue, so
just be yourself." Which was the greatest gift that anybody
could have offered to a talent, you know, on TV to say, we don't
want you to try to beat the other guy, you don't have to copy the
other guy, just be yourself.
KING: Looking
back -- in 16 years, how much has your show changed?
OPRAH:
Oh my goodness. You know, we used to sit, you know, people -- we
used to sit two, three, four people in a chair for an hour and
just, you know, talk. And now the show has evolved, as we have
evolved, as all of us have grown up with the show, I think there
is as much production in our show on a daily basis -- I do believe
I have the best team in TV.
I have met some of your staff. They are pretty good, but I have
the best team in TV. We every day put on what I think is a
prime-time show in daytime. So it has evolved, amazingly so, over
the years. As I have. As I have evolved.
KING: Sure.
OPRAH: Yeah.
KING:
Have you -- every year, there are rumors that -- I mean, obviously
financially you don't need this, but that you are going to drop
it. OPRAH: I have got enough shoes, Larry.
KING: Imelda!
OPRAH:
I have shoes as you have suspenders. We were during the break
saying, wonder who had more -- you had more suspenders or I had
more shoes -- anyway.
KING:
Close. Have you ever thought of dropping it, dropping the show?
OPRAH:
I think of dropping it every contract, every time every contract
is up. I really thought that I was going to drop it in 1998. I
really thought, and then I had my beloved experience and
recognized that how dare I complain about being tired. You know, I
have come from a legacy of people of who know what
"tired" is. And so, for me to complain about oh -- I
don't know if I'm tired, can I go on?
I decided that's -- that's when I came up with the theme song,
"I believe I will run on and see what the end will be,"
because I believe that those of us -- you, me, and other people --
who have this medium, this forum -- I think it is the greatest
forum in the world. I would rather do this than be any -- hold any
political office in the world.
KING:
Me too.
OPRAH:
Because -- wouldn't you?
KING:
Sure.
OPRAH:
There we are, there we are sitting right now, and CNN is around
the world. That's what I love about CNN. When you are out of the
country, CNN is your friend.
KING: And it beats work.
OPRAH:
And it beats work.
KING: We
will be right back with the delightful, talented -- if I have to
tell you all these things. Oprah Winfrey, so many things to talk
about. We'll include your calls as well. Her 16th year. It's ours,
too. Hey, life goes around. Don't go away.
(BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW")
Woman: I
came to Oprah's charity sale.
OPRAH: I
had a charity sale where I sold all my clothes, OK? And
shoes.
Woman:
I didn't have much money because I didn't have a job. And
one of the least -- things, you know, little bitty price, a
little pair of black shoes. I wear seven and she wears
another size.
OPRAH: Ten.
(LAUGHTER)
Woman: So,
I bought the shoes and I really loved them and I kept them
in my bedroom. And when I got really, really depressed, and
I couldn't find anybody to talk to, I took the shoes out and
I...
OPRAH:
Stood in my shoes. She would stand in my shoes. To make
herself feel better, she would stand in my shoes, and now
she says she doesn't have to stand in them, that she's much
-- because she is standing on her own.
(APPLAUSE)
OPRAH: Isn't
that the best story you ever heard?
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK)
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP, OPRAH)
OPRAH:
Thanks. Thank you. I'm Oprah Winfrey, and welcome to the
very first national "Oprah Winfrey Show!"
(END VIDEO CLIP) |
KING:
That was number one. I guess you remember that day very well.
OPRAH: I
do, 16 years.
KING: Yes,
16 -- it is good and bad to be Oprah. Bad, "Oprah Breaks
Down" "The Globe." Shocking to you in a tabloid.
However, "'Oprah saved my life,' says Rosie O'Donnell."
How do you live with all that on a weekly basis?
OPRAH:
Well, I have done pretty well by it. I used to get really upset by
all this stuff. And I can honestly tell you that, I remember when
I was shooting "The Color Purple," Larry. Steven
Spielberg was on the cover of "Time," and all of us were
so excited and we were reading, and you know, and he said, put
that away.
And I was like, put that away? He goes, because I don't -- I never
read that stuff. And I go, but this isn't stuff, this is
"Time." And he said, he doesn't read the good stuff, so
that he doesn't have to believe the bad. And I couldn't imagine
anybody, you know, being on the cover of a prestigious magazine
like that and not reading about themselves.
Now I completely understand. It really took me a solid 10 years, I
would say 10 years, to get over not being disturbed about what
people wrote about or said about me. And now I honestly don't, I
don't read it. I don't read it anymore.
KING:
Don't read at all?
OPRAH:
I really don't.
KING: You
would read "Newsweek" when they do the age of Oprah, and
put you on the cover.
OPRAH:
I did read that.
KING:
Women of the new century, that you would read because of the
quality of the magazine, right?
OPRAH:
I did read that yes, I did.
KING: Do
you -- when you -- when a private life everywhere, by the way,
your boyfriend was great on this show. Did you see him on this
show?
OPRAH:
I did watch him on that show. I thought he was great. You know, I
thought he needed phone calls, though. I kept waiting on the phone
calls.
KING: We
taped. We'll take phone calls for you tonight.
OPRAH: Good
I like phone calls.
KING: Everyone
is interested, so I might as well ask it. It is not my normal
area. Are you going to get married or what?
OPRAH:
Or what.
KING:
Well, it is either yes or no or what.
OPRAH:
I don't know. I don't know the answer to that question. For the
past 15, 16 years the answer has been no. I will say that our
relationship has gotten you know, increasingly better over the
years in terms of us bonding and supporting one another. I think
I'm more in love with him today than I was even five years ago. I
think we had a lot of things to get through, as he talked about,
not as candidly as I know would you have wanted him to on the show.
KING: No,
but he was good.
OPRAH:
But the whole issue of him wanting to define himself as not being
Oprah Winfrey's boyfriend, which I completely understand, wanting
to develop his own identity, wanting to have his own work, his own
business, and not, you know, just be identified as somebody who
was, you know, a walker for me, I thought was very important for
him, and has been very important in the relationship.
And so I wished I could. I knew this question was going to come
up. I wish I could say.
KING: Is
marriage important at this point or can you just live the rest of
your life just being a couple?
OPRAH:
It has never been important to me. It was only important to me to
be wanted enough to be married.
KING:
Ah. Big difference.
OPRAH:
That is what was important to me, to be wanted enough to be
married. But I think the relationship as it is works really,
really solidly well, and because I knew this question was going to
come up tonight, I was just thinking about all the people who have
-- you know, celebrities -- who have gotten married and are now
divorced since we have still been together. And I really do think,
I don't know if you were to ask him, I think if we had gotten
married, we probably wouldn't still be together because of the
pressure.
Because each of us has always known that we were free to go our
separate ways or free to support or not support each other, I
think that has really helped, has been an advantage in a
relationship of such, where our whole lives are always either in
the tabloids or people are looking at everything that you do or
say.
KING: Is
your private life -- and a lot of times you refer to your life on
your show, you are included in, your are an involved host -- is
your private life the public's business?
OPRAH: It
really isn't. But I happen to be the kind of person who is just,
you know, open, and you know, I have nothing to hide about
anything. And so I recognize if you have watched over the past
several years, I don't mention his name hardly at all because I
realize oh, that is why people think I want to get married. People
think me talking about him, just casually mentioning him has
something to do with oh, my God I wish he would marry me, which is
not the case. Not the case at all.
KING: Do
you wonder why people are absorbed in that subject? Why people get
so interested in whether Oprah is or isn't married?
OPRAH:
Well, I have been doing this show now for 16 seasons, and America
is obsessed with getting married. What America is obsessed with is
not actually the marriage itself. America doesn't care if I'm
happily married, they want a wedding. They want a wedding, they
want some Doves to fly, they want doves to fly, they want a pretty
Oscar De La Renta gown. They want to know what I wore, how much
you spend on the cake. Who came? Was Larry there?
They are not interested in my life, is it meaningful, you know, or
is there a real intimacy a there, is there a connection. They just
want to know, was it a nice wedding. And then the thing will be,
where are the children? I think my eggs are getting too old for
that, Larry. Yeah, but I see yours are not.
KING: No.
No. They are great little boys. You should try it. Oprah is an
industry. We will ask about the magazine. But the thing that
puzzled me, and I will get to that right after the break, she
mentioned "The Color Purple," why doesn't Oprah do more
film? We will find out after this. Don't go away. We'll be right
back.
(BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "OPRAH")
Chris Rock:
Four years of "The Chris Rock Show," no Oprah
Winfrey jokes, and no Bill Cosby jokes.
OPRAH:
Why is that?
Chris:
Well.
(APPLAUSE)
Chris: Why
is that? How many black people got money? Why should I
(UNINTELLIGIBLE) off the only two I know?
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK)
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP, "THE
COLOR PURPLE")
OPRAH:
All my life I had to fight. I had to fight my daddy, I had
to fight my uncles. I had to fight my brothers. Girl child
ain't safe in a family of mens. But I ain't never thought I
had to fight in my own house!
(END VIDEO CLIP) |
KING:
Oprah in the brilliant "The
Color Purple." Wonderful, why not more movies?
OPRAH:
Well, I have a day job and now a night job.
KING: You
were so good at that.
OPRAH:
Well, thank you, Larry. It is the thing that I thought in my life
that I wanted to do the most. And now I recognize that it is not
the thing I want to do the most. What I really want to do the most
is to use my life in whatever form to affect other people's lives
for the good, and so if that's a film that I can produce, like
"Tuesdays With Morrie," where there is no role for me,
or you know, any other person of color really it in, then that's
OK, because I think the impact and the message of that movie was
important that, you know, letting people know you need to love and
love now, because you never know when the day will be your last.
And so, that movie was important to me. "Before Women Had
Wings" was important to me, as a part of, you know, Oprah
Winfrey Presents. I'm working on now doing "Their Eyes Were
Watching God," which is my favorite book of all time. I don't
think there is a role in it for me, but I think the message is so
important, so strong. So I, you know, have gotten sort of off
track with this day job, you know, which is exactly the reason why
when I first had gone to Baltimore I wanted to be a part of arena
players, and then I had this television job doing news, so I never
had time to attend any of the plays.
KING: Does
producing bring as much rewards as performing?
OPRAH: Actually,
I am the happiest -- if you asked me the times that I have been
the happiest in my entire life, I mean, out of my mind -- you know
those moments? I hear people say this about having children, when
their babies first come out of the womb and stuff, but I have
those moments when I am acting in the two movies.
"Color Purple" first, it's when I first recognized I
think what love was. I just fell in love with everybody on that
movie set. I thought, this is what passion is. And also working
with Jonathan Demme, Kate Forte and that whole group on
"Beloved." Those are the two times I just -- you should
see me, I'm just like so happy, like, on the way to work in the
morning I'm rolling down the windows, saying to people, "I
like your dress. Would you like some coffee, ma'am?"
KING:
By the way, you mentioned motherhood. Would you like to be a
mother, would you like to either have or adopt or have children?
OPRAH: I
do not think that adoption is out of the question for me, that's
about all I could tell you right now. And since I haven't
discussed it with Stedman -- I heard there was a tabloid out that
said I did or he denied me, or whatever. But I haven't discussed
it with him. But I would -- I don't think it's out of the question
for me, Larry.
KING: Don't
you think you would be a terrific mother?
OPRAH: I
don't think I would be a terrific mother in the current state that
I have created for myself. I think mothers who stay at home and
take care of their children, who have the opportunity to do that
-- because I realize most people who are working mothers don't
have the opportunity to do that -- but I think that's the most
powerful job on earth, I really do.
And I don't think you can do everything as well as it needs to be
done when it comes to mothering when you have a schedule like I
do. I don't think I could be a good mother with this schedule. No,
I do not. I think I could have...
KING: But
you are not ruling it out.
OPRAH: No,
I am not ruling it out. But I do think this, Larry, I think you
can have a lot of people who mother, who help you mother your
children, but that's not what I would want. And I also see myself
as administering in a way nurturing, supporting, you know, the
world's children.
One of the things I want to be able to do with my life in the
future with all of this wealth that I have accumulated -- because
what good is it once you got enough shoes and houses and stuff? Is
to be able to use the money in a way that educates, helps,
nurtures young girls and women around the world. I think, you
know, it is the single defining purpose in a woman's life,
education. That changes every single thing else in her life.
Women who are educated don't have the mortality rate in births,
they don't stay in marriages that make them miserable, they don't
allow themselves to be abused. I mean, education changes
everything. So I would like to use myself, my money, my whatever
to help change that for women and girls.
KING:
Right on the money. We are going to go to calls in a couple
minutes for Oprah.
OPRAH:
I love calls!
KING:
And she loves calls, so we are going to take them.
And by the way, tomorrow night, Cadee Condit, an exclusive
interview with the congressman's young daughter. Her first
appearance ever on television tomorrow night.
We'll be right back with Oprah. Don't go away.
(BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "BELOVED")
OPRAH:
I got a tree on my back, and I hate my house. And nothing
between but the daughter I'm holding in my arms, no running
from nothing. You hear me? I will never run from another
thing on this earth! Come. You can sit down and eat or you
can be (UNINTELLIGIBLE).
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK) |
KING:
It is the most successful new magazine since "In Style"
and "Sports Illustrated," and they go back a way. It is
"O," the Oprah magazine. How did you get into this
business?
OPRAH:
Ellen Levin -- I call her Queen Levin -- came to see me with Kathy
Black one day and said, "why don't you do a magazine?"
Lots of other people had been approaching me about doing a
magazine. So, you know, I think, you know, all of our lives we get
signs, so I kept thinking, OK, now Ellen Levin, whom I had a lot
of respect for because of her work at "Good Housekeeping over
the years." They had always been very, you know, treated me
fairly and everything.
So I took the meeting, and we are sitting in a meeting, Larry, and
she said, "you really should do this, they have this great
proposal." And I was, you know, I'm flattered, I said,
"oh, that's very nice, but you know, I do have a day job, I
have a show. I think I have a pretty strong voice on that show, I
don't see any reason to do a magazine."
And she said, "oh, but there is a reason, because it's the
written word. And people come back to the written word. Once you
say something on the air, it's out there, it's gone, but the
written word is a tangible piece that people can hold on to. And
we could use this as a personal growth guide, as a way of, you
know, doing, executing in the print what you try to do every day
on your show." And that was -- that was the key for me.
KING: Why
are you on every cover?
OPRAH:
Because I can't think of anything else to put on the cover. If
you've got any ideas -- because I get tired of shooting covers. I
said to them from the beginning, "I'm not going to go down
the celebrity road of trying to every month figure out what
celebrity do you put on the cover."
And you know, I'm in a position in my life right now where people
are trying to get me to go on their covers to sell their
magazines, so the real reason I'm on every cover, the real reason
is, is because we don't have a better idea. If you -- if somebody
has a better idea -- because I think like Martha for the first 17
issues was on her cover, and then they decided that they could do
flowers, and bumble bees, and snow cones, and pumpkins, and lots
of beautiful things.
Our magazine isn't about things. Our magazine is really about the
intangible things, the things that, you know -- you can't take a
picture of. So that's why.
KING:
And are you hands-on, do you read -- do you see every page before
we see it?
OPRAH:
Every single page. Every single page. That's why I have a day job
and I have a night job. I do this job, and then about 3:00 I go on
a computer and start working on the magazine. I see every single
thing.
KING:
We are going to take a break, and when we come back we will
include your phone calls. Our guest is the wonderful Oprah
Winfrey. This is LARRY KING LIVE. Don't go away.
| (BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW")
OPRAH:
You say in "A Charge to Keep," your autobiography,
you say that "no one should let themselves be defined
by other people." I want to know how you, George W. --
do you like "W" as a nickname?
George W. Bush: Sure.
OPRAH:
OK. I heard your mom doesn't like it, but anyway sounds good
to say it. W, W, W, is in the house. Yeah.
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK) |
KING:
I'm back with Oprah. Before we go to your phone calls, we'll get
to as many calls as we can. I didn't think talk shows had seasons,
but this is a new season for you. Is anything coming that we
should be interested in?
OPRAH: Well,
we call it a new season because this is when we started, you know,
16 years ago. It's on September 8 we started. Our new season
starts September 10. We're starting the new season with Dr. Phil,
who I think is one -- over the years, of interviewing guests and
experts and you know, people who are supposed to know what they're
talking about, I have not come across anybody who I think knows
their stuff, particularly when in regard to human functioning,
better than Phil McGraw.
KING: And
he's on with us the next night?
OPRAH:
Next week, right?
KING: On
11, right.
OPRAH: OK,
so on September 10, we start our new season with him with a
series, Larry, of -- that begins on Monday and Tuesday and then
will be for the following Tuesdays, until because we're still in
the process of editing them all.
It is a study in human functioning and dynamics because what we
are trying to do with this show, what I'm trying to do with the
show is the same thing I'm trying to do with my life, is to get
people to see where they are stuck and be able to live up to
whatever is their human potential.
I'm trying to do that for myself. That's why I'm never satisfied
where I am in my life. I'm always trying to push the envelope.
What is next level? What is next level? How I do grow myself to be
a better person?
And I think that Phil, I mean I never had a shrink, but if I had a
shrink, it would it be Phil Mcgraw.
So what we did was we put 42 people in a room, 42 people, 12
cameras, 5 days locked in a room with Phil. With all of their --
dysfunction. And what came out as a result of that, I think, was
every single person transformed in some way.
KING: And
we will see this over a succession of Tuesdays?
OPRAH:
Yes, you'll see it over a succession of Tuesdays beginning this
Monday, September 10.
KING: Wow!
OPRAH: It's
powerful.
KING:
Wow, great idea. Let's take some calls for Oprah. Clinton
Township, Michigan, hello.
CALLER: Hello.
KING:
Hi.
CALLER: Hi.
I want to say, Oprah, you've inspired me to be a better mother and
to quit smoking. And just what you just said, how you push
yourself to the next level?
OPRAH:
Yes.
CALLER:
Your show does that for me. So thank you. And my question would
be, what -- is there is new goal for yourself that you're going to
push to next level? Is there anything going on like that for you?
KING:
Anything you want to do, you haven't done?
OPRAH:
You know, I just kind of keep
myself open, Larry. I don't, you know, because I've have done a
lot of things that I'd never even expected to do.
One of my philosophies is that, you know, I used to dream that I
could -- when I was in Baltimore make $22,000 a year when you saw
me, Larry. When I was in Baltimore, I used to think, "If I
could just match my salary to my age." And so about now, I'd
be make $47,000.
So I now believe that God, the force that created us, can a bigger
dream than you can ever dream for yourself. So I try to keep
myself open, Clinton, Michigan. I try to keep myself open to
whatever that possibility is.
There's a beautiful quote, that I love, by Emily Dickinson, where
she says "I dwell in possibility." And that's how try
lead my life. I dwell in possibility. So I'm open to whatever is
the next thing that shows up.
KING: A
question from www.cnn.com on
the Internet. When will Oprah be taking her show on the road
again?
OPRAH: Well,
I don't know, because it's so expensive to do that, as you know.
KING:
Yes.
OPRAH:
The last time I think we were on the road was like in the Bahamas
or something. And we only did that because it was so darned cold
in Chicago that we had the luxury...
KING: Well,
it's going to get cold this winter, too.
OPRAH: I
hear it's going to be bad. So I don't know, we take show on the
road, I used to say we take the show on the road, when it when we
feel that it's appropriate, but I can't say that because we just
felt like it was cold. I don't know the answer to that question.
KING: By
the way, you bought huge house in Santa Barbara, right?
OPRAH:
Yes, I did.
KING:
Are you going to be a Californian?
OPRAH:
Well, not a resident of California because the show will always
remain here in Chicago because that's where studio is. And there's
not even, I wouldn't even entertain the idea of moving the show
there. But I also -- I used to have a house in Florida, Stedman
and I did. And I gave up the house in Florida for Santa Barbara.
I saw this house, Larry. It wasn't even for sale, Bob and Marlene
Vilos, this was going to be their dreamhouse, the Vilos'. And I
saw this house.
KING:
And?
OPRAH:
And the rest is her story. It really -- I just thought -- I felt
like Scarlet in "Gone with the Wind." It is my Tara.
KING: So
you left Fisher Island?
OPRAH:
Yes, I'm gone.
KING: Columbia,
South Carolina hello.
CALLER: Yes,
Oprah, I would like to commend and thank you for not compromising
the content and quality of your show for sake of ratings, when
other shows have stooped to what I consider to all-time lows.
My question is, what do you attribute to the rise of popularity
with such shows as "Jerry Springer" and "Jenny
Jones," whose content I think is less than desirable and
certainly not in the same league or caliber as what you produce?
OPRAH:
Well, first of all, let me just tell you, they're not rising in
popularity anymore. For about two years they were. And I know
Jerry was, specifically, because he beat us in several markets.
And now that has all leveled off, I think, because they cut out
all the fighting.
But I will have to say this. I think that it's a glorious thing
that we live in a country that allows so many different voices to
be heard. And I think the rise in popularity when it was actually
rising is because there were people who wanted to watch that,
wanted to see that, who felt that there was some kind of common
denominator there for them.
What I believe is that that only lasts for a short time. And that
each of us has to find a way, our own way. And my way isn't
everybody else's way. I don't want a -- you know, what? I don't
want everybody doing the show like mine.
So I think that there's room for everybody. And we offer what we
offer because that's what I believe. I mean, this show on a daily
basis reflects my personal beliefs and standards. And other shows
reflect the beliefs and standards of whoever is programming for
them. And I've...
KING:
Were you were shocked...
OPRAH:
...been really lucky because I have those wonderful King boys all
these years. I had Roger King, Michael King, who were my
distributors, but they never, ever, to their credit, tried to tell
me how to produce the show.
KING: I
nearly went to work for them once.
OPRAH:
You did?
KING:
Yes, 1990.
OPRAH: Yes,
they're quite...
KING:
They're amazing.
OPRAH: Great
guys.
KING: They're
wild.
OPRAH:
Yes.
KING: Like
Roger is.
OPRAH: Roger,
best salesman in the world.
KING:
That ever lived.
OPRAH:
Yes, that ever lived. He's one of the reasons I am where I am
today. He really is.
KING:
We'll be back with more of Oprah and more of your calls. Don't go
away on this edition of "LARRY KING LIVE." Tomorrow
night, Cadee Condit, the daughter of Congressman Gary Condit.
Don't go away.
(BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW")
OPRAH: Do
you feel like you really on top of the world, like
everything's clicking for you now?
Julia Roberts:
It's just like, yes. But you know, I'm terrified of heights,
so I'm a little trepidacious.
OPRAH:
Really?
Julia:
Well, yes. Yes, yes. But you don't want to, you know, I try
be really grateful, but at same time, you don't want to say,
"Oh, perfect, perfect wonderful, wonderful." It's
like your teasing the gods to change that around for you.
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK) |
KING:
We're back with Oprah. And before we take the next call, you still
have the weight thing up and down, the weight? Is that is a
constant Oprahism?
OPRAH:
Yes.
KING:
Is that life's battle?
OPRAH:
I'm -- you know what? I'm finally -- I think I'm licking it
because I now understand that it is so connected to emotions. It's
almost like an addict in that, you know, I don't have, you know, a
lot of bad habits.
And I used to think that I don't have a lot of bad habits because
I eat them all away. And I used to think that it was all just
about whether you exercised or not, or whether or not, you know,
you liked potato chips or didn't like, you know, certain fatty
foods. But it really is -- you can tell when I'm not balanced
myself well enough, because it's all, you know, my weight shoots
right up. So I'm really now trying to work on my emotions and
dealing with my emotions and feeling stress, actually allowing
myself to feel stress instead of eat stress.
KING: One
would say, I think it was F. Scott Fitzgerald said, "the rich
are different than you and I." But one would say maybe
watching, saying, "Oprah's got everything in the world."
OPRAH: Yes.
KING:
Got all the money anyone could ever wish for. She's one of the
richest women in the world, if not up there with -- what could be
stress to her?
OPRAH: Something
just happened.
KING: Oh,
did you lose me?
OPRAH:
This is one of those moments when you say we're having technical
difficulties.
KING:
OK, we'll be right back. We'll take a break and straighten them
out. Don't go away.
(COMMERCIAL
BREAK)
KING:
All right, before we were so rudely interrupted.
OPRAH: Yes.
KING: By
the powers that be. The question was F. Scott Fitzgerald said once
"the rich are different from you and me." And one
wonders, one thinks of someone sitting back now in an easy chair,
hearing Oprah discuss stress, when she appears to have it all.
OPRAH:
Yes, well, I certainly do have -- well, I was saying to you, I
don't have a lot of stress because I eat it all. And I'm trying
not to do that. I'm trying to just allow myself to feel whatever
it is I need to feel in any given time and not, you know, reach
for the chip or a peanut or grape or some cranberries or whatever.
It's -- this whole, at another time, you and I, because we're
going to run out of time, but I would love to talk about this
whole phenomenon of fame because it truly is -- I've never, you
know, I interview people just like you do. And I've never gotten
anybody to be really honest about it. Because Larry, it is a thing
that lives outside yourself.
You know, I just taped the book club today. And some of the guests
on that book club show were saying to me, "Oh, do you realize
impact that you have on people all over country?" And I was
saying, "I really don't," because who has time to sit
around and think about the impact that you are having on people,
number one. And what kind of an ego brain would that be? So fame
is this thing. I tell you that there are times, because I am on
the cover of my magazine, and there have been times before when I
like walked into Walgreens to get some Nivea lotion or something,
and I would see my picture on a magazine. And there's that moment.
I would be drawn to it because I'd say, "Oh, there's a black
woman. Wonder who that is."
And there is myself on a cover. It's like an out of body thing.
It's a strange thing because I still think of myself as a woman in
process. I'm just still trying to be the best person I can be. I
came from Baltimore. I got this really great job. Lots of people
see me every day, but I am struggling with the same issues that
other people are.
KING: Sure.
OPRAH: I
want to -- when I take my last breath, to know that I had no
regrets, that I just you know, I want my last thought to be,
"I blew that one out. I really blew that one out." I
took that earth thing and I did it. You know, I want to be high
fiveing with angels. Really. So I don't think of myself. And I
think it is a good thing, actually, that I don't -- I can't -- I
don't see myself I guess the way other people do.
KING: Yes,
it would make a fascinating discussion. We ought to do it one
night, just on being famous.
OPRAH:
Yes, because how would could you. And you should you do it with
lots of other people.
KING:
Yes, what's it like. What do you think it must've been like to
have been Frank Sinatra for like 70 years?
OPRAH:
Yes, now see, I think that was very different. I think that was a
very different time, because you were literally idolized by a
world that had so other few people to look at, you know, and
admire.
KING:
Yes.
OPRAH: And
the medium wasn't what it is now.
KING: No.
OPRAH:
You didn't have, you know, you didn't have 500 channels. You
didn't have all of these magazines, and you know, access to so
many different kinds of personalities and weren't bombarded. So I
think being a famous person, a star in Frank Sinatra's era -- my
good friend Quincy Jones, who you should have on for his
autobiography.
KING: Yes,
it's coming out. We will, we will. I love...
OPRAH: I
read it. It's amazing. OK. I love him. And so Quincy's
autobiography is coming out in October. It's amazing. He has most
interesting life of anybody I know living, because he spans that
whole era. Frank Sinatra. He was conducting for Frank Sinatra when
he was 25.
KING: Yes.
OPRAH:
So he lived in that era with Billy Holiday, Frank Sinatra, Count
Basie, all those guys when "big" was really big. And I
think it was very different than it is now.
KING:
Yonkers, New York, back to calls for Oprah. Hello.
CALLER:
Hello.
KING:
Hello.
CALLER:
I'm Sherry Nickel and I just wondering who is -- was -- Oprah's
role model when she was a kid.
KING:
How old are you dear?
CALLER: Nine.
KING: Nine.
Is Oprah your role model?
CALLER:
Yes.
KING:
All right, you're her role model. Who was yours, Oprah?
OPRAH: I
had authors who were my role models. Maya Angela was a role model
for me. Growing up, reading her book, "I Know Why the Cage
Birds Sing" really, kind of, opened up my life in a way, that
made me think for the first time, that being colored and being
poor had some validation.
So it is an amazing thing, I tell you, to have a role model and
then to grow up to have that role model be your friend.
KING:
Sure, well, that's weird.
OPRAH:
..as Maya has become a good friend of mine. So yes, she was the
only role model that I can, you know, really identify. Other than
that, role models were books for me. I mean that's why...
KING: Are
you surprised that you're a role model to a nine-year- old?
OPRAH:
Am I surprised?
KING:
Yes.
OPRAH:
To be honest, no. Because...
KING: No?
OPRAH:
No, because I hear -- I do hear that a lot. And I speak to a lot
of children. And I do believe this though, Larry. I believe that
we all are role models for each other in ways that you don't even
know. I think a nine-year-old, thank you very much, you know sees
me on television, likes whatever that image happens to be, but her
mother, her aunt, her teachers, whomever she comes in contact with
on a daily basis, is a stronger role model than I could ever be.
KING:
But also, many girls would say the same, maybe Britney Spears is a
role model or Barbie dolls.
OPRAH:
Yes, I think -- well, I never did like Barbie, but that's OK. I
thought Barbie needed a job, you know. Never was a Barbie girl.
KING: Was
there a black Barbie?
OPRAH: No.
And there was not a black Barbie, let me tell you that.
KING:
Burlington, Vermont, hello.
CALLER: Hi.
KING:
Hi.
CALLER: Hi,
this is...
OPRAH:
Now there is a black Barbie because I know Mattel's going to call
me, but there wasn't one.
CALLER: Oh,
I'm having some problems in the background here. Oprah, Larry,
it's a pleasure to speak with both.
KING: Thank
you.
CALLER:
I'm a stay at home mother, mother two of boys, and I relish every
free moment of free time I have. I'm wondering Oprah, do you have
any free time? And what do you do with your spare time?
OPRAH: Mm-hmm,
I have lots of free time.
CALLER: What
are your favorite things to do?
OPRAH: I
have lots of free time. I just came back from a trip in Spain. I
had lots of free time this summer. And I give myself free time.
Every Sunday, you can believe that wherever I am on a Sunday, I'm
having some free time because I do have a lot of things going on,
whether I let them stress me or not.
I have a lot of things going on and I find that if you don't at
least give yourself a day to rejuvenate yourself, to revive
yourself, just to be silent with yourself, to do nothing, then you
end up burning out really quickly.
And there have been times when I didn't do it. You can tell the
times when I don't do it. And so, I try to, on regular basis give
myself a day a week to just do nothing. I have a farm in Indiana.
I have a nine dogs.
Stedman and I go there. We talk about things that are important to
us. We talk about -- you know, people think we're sitting around
talking about having babies. Larry, you've talked to Stedman. We
talk about education a lot.
KING: I
know.
OPRAH:
And how we're going to help educate the world. So he's a big
motivator for me. He has a lot of influence in my life in terms of
you know, inspiring me to always try to move to the next level. So
we spend a lot of time, sort of like jiving with each other, you
know, jiving and vibing, at our farm.
KING: And
by the way, don't forget that big kind of encounter series starts
Monday on the new Oprah season. Dr. Phil is a part of it.
OPRAH:
Yes, it's called the get real challenge, the get real challenge
with Dr. Phil. KING: It's called the get real challenge. And Dr.
Phil will be on this program next Tuesday to discuss it as well.
We'll be back with our remaining moments with Oprah. We'll take
this final break. Don't go away.
(BEGIN
VIDEO CLIP, "THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW")
OPRAH:
And what we want to do is start a book club here on the
Oprah show, because I know a lot of you are in reading clubs
out there. And you have a book of the month and so forth.
And I want to get the whole country reading again. Those who
haven't been reading, I think books are important!
[applause]
(END VIDEO CLIP)
(COMMERCIAL BREAK) |
KING:
We have one question submitted through America Online. And that
is, will Oprah run for political office in the future? And if not,
why not?
OPRAH: Well,
for the same reason that I said earlier when we were talking,
Larry, that I just do think that television is the greatest medium
for communication, for the ability to touch people, reach people,
inform people, educate people. I think it's the best job there is.
And I -- and the pay is pretty good.
It's been far more than I ever expected it to be. And I just -- I
think there's too much, you know, the reason why I had never done
politicians until this year is because you just can't break
through that wall of stuff. I do wish more informed, passionate,
caring people would run for office. That is you know, speaking
with forked tongue because I am an informed, passionate person,
but I don't want to do it.
KING: By
the way, were you one of those, after Congressman Condit?
OPRAH:
No.
KING: Not
your ball of wax?
OPRAH: No,
not my ball of wax at all.
KING:
Did you watch the Chung interview?
OPRAH:
No, but I'm going to be watching -- I happened to be in Spain
during the Condit interview. Matter of fact, I was watching you
with Roseanne.
KING: She
was great that night.
OPRAH: Yes,
it was fun that night.
KING:
She gets a kick out of you.
OPRAH: Yes,
I was on a boat watching you. That's what I love about CNN. You're
in middle of the ocean.
KING: We're
everywhere.
OPRAH: You're
there with Larry and Roseanne.
KING:
What can't Oprah do that she used to like to do?
OPRAH:
Well.
KING: Like
Sinatra told me once, he missed shooting pool, just going down to
a pool hall and shooting pool.
OPRAH: Now
see, but I don't -- we were talking earlier, that why I'm telling
you I think you should do that show with like a panel of famous
people to talk about...
KING:
We will do it.
OPRAH:
OK.
KING: And
you'll be included, but what can't do you, you used to do?
OPRAH:
OK, so my answer is, I don't I don't have that kind of life. I do
everything.
KING: You
take a walk down 5th Avenue?
OPRAH:
I walk down 5th Avenue. I walk down Madison. Madison is my
favorite for the shopping. And you know why.
KING: Yes
I'll tell the wife.
OPRAH: I
walk to Marshall Fields to get, you know, the Clinique special. I
go everywhere. I go to the grocery store. I go to Walgreens. I
don't...
KING:
So there's nothing it has done to force you to miss something you
would like to do?
OPRAH:
No. The only thing I don't do, because I do recognize this, that
if I sometimes it feels like being in parade when I go outside. Hi,
hi, hi. And
that's because I think I'm on TV. And everybody knows me. And it's
so familiar.
I've actually been in a restaurant -- I was in restaurant in Los
Angeles. And Elizabeth Taylor was at one table. This was several
years ago. And I was at another. People would come over to me and
say, "Oprah guess who's here. Elizabeth Taylor."
KING:
Oprah, it is always great seeing you. We're out of time. It went
by too fast. And let's not wait another 6.5 years to talk again
soon.
OPRAH:
Let's not.
KING: And
best of luck on the new season starting Monday, with the whole
thing with Dr. Phil.
OPRAH: Thank
you.
KING:
And we'll see lots of you.
OPRAH:
Be good to Dr. Phil next week. Hey, Larry, enjoy your vacation.
KING: Thank
you.
OPRAH: Are
you taking the boys?
KING:
No, we're going to leave them home for a while. It's anniversary
time.
OPRAH: OK.
KING:
Oh.
OPRAH:
Maybe hearing about some more.
KING:
Thanks. You got to meet the boys, though.
OPRAH: I
would love to.
KING: You
like the name Canon, right, Chance, OK, but Canon, you like that
name?
OPRAH:
I love the name Canon. I'd always thought if I had a son I would
name him Canaan.
KING:
Thanks, we're out of time.
OPRAH:
OK, bye.
KING: Bye,
dear.
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